Imagine if God would show us our spouses; where they live, who they are and what they are doing daily.
Imagine if you could hear, feel or see every move your spouse to-be makes daily.
Would it be wonderful?…Lol
Boys who are players are often told that, what they do to ladies will be done to their future wives too somewhere.
Ladies who sleep around with married men are also told that, when they marry, a fine lady will snatch/sleep around with their husbands as they did to others.
Others simply call it KARMA.
Well, whether Karma or whether reaping what you sow, all I ask is HOW CAN I KISS HIM?
Friendship is such an awesome thing especially when there is no selfishness but just selflessness and love; where there is no competition and pressure about ‘changing’ one’s self.
Friendship can be such a great blessing on its own, but when hormones start to rise and wisdom starts to fade, I ask myself, how can I kiss him?
How can I kiss the one whose shoulders are better than pillows?
How can I kiss the one who makes me laugh till I could fart and not feel ashamed?
How can I kiss the lips that often tease me till I get flattered?
How can I kiss the brother from another mother I have found?
Hormones rising is a test of your integrity and that of your friendship.
Hormones rising is just a test to shake the foundation of your friendship.
Hormones rising is just a test to see if each of you is really selfless as your friendship shows.
Hormones rising begins with Kissing; not the eyes. Because, I can bet that, if I find a true friend in you, I can look deep into your eyes, feel whatever, but just concentrate on how blessed I am to have you as a friend, and how awesome you are to me. Nothing more.
Yes.
But should from the beginning of the friendship there was a hidden agenda of ‘playing your cards well’ to win the other person, hormones rising will reveal that truth.
Should I kiss him, I would have allowed myself to go defeated while hormones got the victory.
Should I not say No and allow him to kiss me and enjoy himself, sex will be no question.
And that would have broken the foundation of our heavenly friendship for good.
And not only would we have destroyed our friendship, we will not have a successful marriage, because fornication can never be the foundation of a good marriage.
I promise you that.
A life without Christ is full of crises. And since fornication is without Christ, any union fornication creates will be full of crises.
Beware!
So I ask again, How can I kiss Him?
You could propose marriage to that friend you have found in the world, but don’t fall prey to hormones rising. Enjoy your friendship while it exist, and if you want to take it a step further, no problem, but LET IT BE PURE.