I remember I used to tell myself that should I get some spectacles and headphones, I will be ‘better’; I would be able to live in my silent and lonely world happier.
“Am I having a good time with my spectacles and headphones now?”
No. I am not living any happier lonely and silent. In fact, I have become noisier than I was without the headphones and spectacles, and I have become more of a sanguine (‘an adopted self’) than I was as a melancholic.

Can you guess what I am telling myself now as a desire?
“I need a man. The way I feel horny these days, should I get a man, I will be satisfied and okay.”
‘Yeah right!’ I guess that is what you will say…lol
Yeah. Yeah right. I definitely don’t need a man.
You are right. I don’t need a man.
If I cannot get what I want/need in my ‘lack’ (alone place/space), I will never get it in my ‘abundance’.
And that will be more frustrating, because, I would be thinking, “I have this now, why am I not still happy or okay?” _This is frustrating like hell.

Whatever I need, whatever you need, you don’t need your ‘lack’ fulfilled before you can have it.

Do you need some silence and lone time but you live in a noisy neighborhood or in a compound house at the time? Find the lone self or space in there._ Yes, You can!

Do you need a man because you feel horny lately? You don’t need a man, control that feeling!

Do you want to do something great but you feel incapacitated to do it? Do it anyway in your ‘lack state’.

THAT’S THE WAY IT IS: THAT IS THE WAY FORWARD!

You are blessed and highly favored. Stay Loved. Amen!

#You don’t need all your lack present or fulfilled before you can get what you really need. You can get what you need through another door. Find that door instead!

Stay Blessed Love.