A child is born to be taken care of: All he thinks about are his needs, and how to ‘cry’ them to acquisition.

Parents on the oher hand are built to be able to take care of their own needs as well as those of others (their children if there is). Children are not built that way yet; mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and even physically. Until they too conceive and give birth to their kind, or impregnate someone, they are not READY! Even if they do give birth as kids, they will still not be ready to parent a child.

Parents, please do not leave your responsibilities as a parent or a care giver into the feeble hands of kids just because you gave birth to them. That is ABUSE (AB-normal USE of a child): You ‘kill’ the child if you do that. Life has stages, and every stage has to be lived accordingly.

If you are not ready to be a PARENT, please do not do things that make people parents (having sex). Don’t even think about protecting yourself, because with or without a condom (birth control/protection), the act is still fornication if you two are not married yet.

Every seed you sow, you would reap the fruits thereof.

Let children live as children as long as they are children. When they grow, they would assume your role appropriately. Until then, take care of them as you should since it is your responsibility as a parent/care-giver.

Don’t abuse kids through any form of Child Labour.

            Don’t abuse kids in any way, shape or form.

                        Be a good parent, and let the child live as a child as long as he is.

AMEN.

NOTE: Life has stages. When you make children miss their ‘children stage’ of life by letting them assume ‘parental/care giving’ role, it affects them in their adult lives: They tend to feel that there is something missing in their lives. This missing something is true, but there would be nothing to fill that void which that missing something has created.

Be careful and thoughtful about how you treat children. They are priceless gifts from God. Know their value before you lose them.

If you are finding it difficult knowing their value, ask someone who doesn’t have any yet but wishes to have one.

Stay Blessed…

Be a Blessing…

And be Blessed…

Amen.