Hello guys, this is your girl Augustina, and today I have got something unusual, yet important for you. Today’s message is titled, the Guy Cloud. Some of you may be wondering what this is. Hold on, I am just here for you.

As human, you are supposed to come alive more in the presence of others. Any ‘company’ of persons which dims/put out your ‘light’ you are supposed to get rid of.

We were all created as light, thus, the presence of somebody should bring illumination, direction, or confirmation of a goodwill. Some people have made it their goal to dim other people’s light; girl be careful.

This guy cloud could cut across all gender of people, but I will like to concentrate on the male gender:

When a lady meets a guy two things are likely to happen; she either loses herself (to the negative), or she comes alive with a sense of direction and purpose (to the positive).

Sweetheart, a guy cloud is a powerful thing; it can either make you or ruin you. But because this ‘situation’ hasn’t been named as precisely as ‘a guy cloud’ in our society, often we blame the guy who causes our lives to go into the negative, but I am here to tell you that this situation is called the guy cloud, and it is not only negative. It can have positive side too: ie; the same rain that brought down trees and destroyed the earth could be the same rain which desilted choked gutters, preventing floods. You have to know which is which when it happens.

Any guy who drains you, any guy who doesn’t bring the best out of you, any guy who is not willing to be helped or to listen to good counsel is a sign of a bad cloud, RUN. If you stay and say you will control the ‘situation’, sweedy, you will get wet, and probably ‘drown’ by the thunderstorm it will bring along.

I don’t know anybody who will see a cloudy sky (guy) and say, “Oh, it will not rain”, even when the meteorologists (friends, family, pastor, instincts, etc) have told her this is a sign of rain.

You may say that these people in your life don’t see what you see, but sweetheart, if there is something that got to be seen, at least one person among these people should see too. If all of them are in the negative, you have to be very careful. If you go ahead, without God’s mercy, YOU WILL BURN!

Gal, just as you take precautions when you see clouds gather, should be the same way you ought to take precautions when you notice a bad guy cloud (either by intuition, evidence, behavior/character, family counsel or surroundings).

Living under a bad guy cloud can make your dreams cloudy: He literally will be draining out the power, zeal, encouragement, motivation and energy you have/may need to materialize your dreams.

You can’t change a guy! It is the Holy Spirit through the man’s own will that can change him.

Note: If the ‘man’ (God) who created him isn’t getting his attention, what makes you think you will get his attention? If you should get it anyway, it is even dangerous. Because a man without the Holy Spirit in him and leading him is being led by his flesh. And according to Galatians 5:19-21, you will know that the fruits of the flesh are not something you want to live with.

[Now the doings (practices) of the flesh are clear (obvious): they are immorality, impurity, indecency, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger (ill temper), selfishness, divisions (dissensions), party spirit (factions, sects with peculiar opinions, heresies), Envy, drunkenness, carousing, and the like. I warn you beforehand, just as I did previously, that those who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5:19-21 AMP]

Don’t bother to ‘give’ anything in other to ‘change’ the guy. Just change YOU, and if he realizes it and see its worth, he will conform or be transformed by the renewing of his mind [Romans 12:2].

First change by leaving him, and his presence.  #No matter how much perfume you put on your clothes, if you stay in a stinking washroom with them, you will stink too….

• Furthermore, note that a good guy cloud makes you come alive. It is like the sunrise, or the waking dawn; you come alive.
• A bad guy cloud is always night time when you can’t do anything. [John 9:4].
• A good guy cloud give/produces in you energy to pursue your dreams.

Sweethearts, don’t go around ‘searching’ for a man (The Bible didn’t say that he who finds a husband… or for this reason a woman shall leave her mother and father… Note: the leaving and finding is all on the man. You just have to be preparing and transforming yourself from being a mere woman to becoming a ‘wife’ [a virtuous woman]. This is your work!).

Build yourself up and become the best version of yourself every day. When the right guy comes around, he would come with a good guy cloud hopefully. Even if he comes with a ‘bad cloud’, you would be able to know and see, so to avoid him. At this time, you will be whole in your own self and world with the eye of your understanding enlightened.

If you know your purpose and who you are, for example, if you know your purpose as being a ‘fish’, you would know that associating with a ‘fire’ person will do you no good. You’d better chosen a ‘water’ person [Thus, someone to complement and complete you, and make you exhibit your best self to the glory of God].

Likewise, if you know/discover your purpose and yourself as being a ‘car battery’, you will know that associating with a ‘pool/water’ person/condition will do you no good either.

 We can see from this example that per our different/ even similar divine purposes (what God brought you to this earth to accomplish, your passions, and dreams), what may be good for another (fish-water), may not be good for you (car battery-water). Know your purpose and WHO YOU ARE, and you would be able to choose right, and at least reduce your ‘margin of error’ in choosing/accepting a guy.

Ladies, know that you are the prize. Don’t sell yourself cheap. Let your worth be seen and known without you even blowing your trumpet.

Thank you all for your audience.

God bless and keep us all in Jesus’ name,

Amen.

See you next time… Please do well to tell others about this blog piece if it blessed you.

Amen.

#Bone of my bones

#Flesh of my flesh

#He shall be called woman.

#Adam… the ‘ideal man’.