Being needy isn’t sexy.

Being Needy is like being a barrel with holes at the bottom. Thus, you feel every fragrant oil of love poured into you, but you are not able to retain any.

No one can fix your neediness except yourself. Begin to love yourself more, deal with your personal issues, and fill yourself with so much love to about “90%”. Your sources of love could be from your hobbies, passions, purpose, friends, pets, etc. Doing these get your ‘love tank’ full. Hence, you are able to receive, and appreciate the little but priceless Love input your husband or significant other gives you. You begin to enjoy a state of Love Overflow.

Know that the love which your husband gives you comes from his love tank too. A love tank which he has filled by pursuing his passions, dreams, purpose, hobbies, friends, pets, etc.  Being needy wouldn’t allow you to objective, but only subjective; not appreciating his efforts even if they seem little in your eyes (they are big in his heart).

Being needy makes you so selfish that you suck your husband dry. You would be too selfish to think about him, that he also desires love from you to ‘survive’. As porous as your love tank is, whatever your husband does for you wouldn’t be enough in your eyes and heart. Why? Because you are too needy (porous) to retain any of his love efforts as goodwill.

Heal yourself my Dear one: Fill yourself with happiness from these sources of love; your hobbies, pets, passions, purpose, and good friends. Don’t suck your husband, or any friend dry. It isn’t sexy.

POUR INTO EACH OTHER!

The LORD be with you, and keep you

#You ARE Sexy

#Neediness isn’t Sexy….at all.

#Thou shall not needy. Be confident.

AMEN.