Singleness is all about independence.

            Build your independence so that you would NOT NEED a mate (for survival). Rather, you will want a mate to share life with.

                        Don’t resent singleness no matter how long it is.

                                    Build independence.

                                                Build yourself.

                                                Build your DREAMS

Become whole, and you will see wholly through someone. You will be able to see through people’s manipulations and overcome it, since you are NOT seeking someone to please but rather someone who is a help MEET (help meet implies compatible, adaptive, adjusting, someone who ‘meets’ you, someone who is there to help you Up)

Enjoy your singleness while it lasts: A time is coming when you will NEVER have it again.

Divorce isn’t the same as singleness.

Enjoy singleness whiles it lasts.

Enjoy the wholeness of it, and you will live, now and when you are married. Amen.

Byeeee…..