I am sitting here trying to have an informal board meeting with some of my friends. I want their opinions and feedback about a new move I want to make. Even though we aren’t done yet, I am feeling tired already. Then the thought of handling some other business at home came to my tired brain. My exhaustion just went up: “Damnnnnn… is it this hard to be a ‘man’?” I asked myself. Obviously, it is hard to be a provider; you are thinking about everybody’s needs, and everything, but who is thinking same for you? Who is ‘greasing’ your tired joints? Who is ‘caring’ for you? Who is refueling you with strength and energy when you are tired? That is when I realized the in depth wisdom of God’s Word; “It’s not good for man to be alone. I will make him a HELPER.” Man, you need a helper. Every man needs a helper. Not only for the loneliness part of being alone, but for the support they can give to you too.

However, even though you need a helper as a man, choose wisely. Your choice will either give you hell (torment) or heaven (bliss). You wouldn’t want to go through this already tiring life, and still have to deal with a nagging, unsupportive, selfish, unintelligent, unwise, and careless woman. You need a woman who can help you, push you to progress, help guide you in the right direction, watch your back, and hold you from falling. You need a queen, man.

There is a great wisdom in choosing wisely. This life isn’t going to get any easy for only you. How tough or gentle this life would be towards you depends on your CHOICES and decisions. If you make a bad choice or decision, then even an easy life would be hard for you.

Choose a mate.

Man, you NEED a woman.

Man, you need a RIGHT woman.

A right woman doesn’t come from your ‘feelings’ or what your eyes see alone. A right woman comes from what your sight, vision, dreams, and spirit see.

Man, choose RIGHT!

You need a MATE!

You need a HELPER, and she is a WOMAN.

#being a man is tough!