Would you be surprised if I told you that there is an amount of self-righteousness in feminism?

Some may answer, “It is obvious”, while other may say, “No! There isn’t any self-righteousness in Feminism.” But hold on. Let’s go back to the beginning. What did the Bible say? “… In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Then God blessed them and said, ‘Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and govern it.’ Then God looked over ALL he had made and he saw that it was VERY GOOD. And evening passed and morning came marking the sixth day.” _ Genesis 1:27, 28, 31 NLT.

From the beginning, God’s intention was for man and woman to come (be) together to bring up godly offspring, to fill the earth and to rule [Malachi 2:15, Genesis 1:28]. But what does Feminism say? It says, “I don’t need a man. I can rule on my own.” Yes babe, you can rule, but not on your own. Every king NEEDS a Queen, and every queen has a king.

Some say, “I don’t need a man to have kids.” If so, then babe, produce your own sperms, and fertilize your own eggs. Go ahead! Provide a father figure for your son. Teach him how to be man without making him a feminine man.

 Look babe, like Jesus said, this was no so in the beginning. The money, power, fame, and accomplishments which are making you think you don’t need a man were the same things which made some men in past centuries think it was okay to abuse women (“lower beings”). Are you repeating their mistake in grand style now?

Look, God in his own great wisdom saw that Adam NEEDED a helper, and he brought to him a woman. Adam had it all; The glorious Garden of Eden: food, home, good environment, ‘pets’, animals or ‘livestock’, work, resources, just name it. He had it all. Yet, God looked through  him and saw that his purpose (source of fulfillment) needed a helper. Those ‘material’ things around him can sustain him, but it is his purpose which will give him great fulfillment, and that purpose needed a helper (a good woman).

Most men are looking at the ‘garden’ they are in (their resources) and thinking that they are fine; they don’t need anybody. So, should a woman even come into his life, this man “sub-consciously or intentionally” reduces her to a ‘maid’ who will keep his resources intact, and in check. No man! You are wrong!

Those resources will pass away, but a good woman and your purpose will never pass away.

Your purpose is unique to you alone. What account will you give to God about the‘2 talents, 5 talents, or even 1 talent’ (your purpose) he has given you? Are you going to tell him you buried it in the sand of your possession (your ‘garden’)? Are you going to say you got too busy to even discover or notice it?

Women, you need men!

            Men, you need women!

There is a reason why sperms is only found in one ‘gender’, and ovaries in another ‘gender’. And should these two genders want to have something beautiful (be it a child or sex) they need to COME TOGETHER in Love.

Don’t let society pollute your mind. Women, you have been ‘carved’ to need your man (not neediness though): His company gives you pleasure. A good man has also been ‘carved’ to feel happiness whenever he makes you happy.

Sweetheart, don’t waste the testosterone in your man: Let him put it into good use by accomplishing great things for you and in you. Lady, be a 1 Peter 3: 1 wife, add Proverbs 31, and you will be fine. …J

Feminism is for the job field where there is no gender (male or female) but only job titles and roles; Engineer, banker, etc.  In all other things, feminism don’t and shouldn’t play any role. Not in your marriage, nor in your thoughts, because it was not so from the beginning.

Stay Blessed.

Amen.