What was the first thing which came to your mind when you read, womb and money? Was it money rituals? Well, far from it. I have something great to tell you about this subject; womb and money.

Before I begin, may I ask my gentleman this question; “As a guy, would you marry a lady who has no womb? Would you marry her even if she’s beautiful, has good character, all that you look for in a wife, but has no womb to give you kids of your own?”

My ladies, let’s not be offended or emotional about this question. I am driving at something, so please let’s hold on and grab all the information we can get from this now.

As an answer to the above question, I know some of our guys would say that they wouldn’t mind marrying a lady without a womb if she has all those good character, but I dare you all that, most of you men would at some point in your marital lives have the thoughts and desire of having your own kids, and this is fair. It’s normal: You don’t want your legacy to fade but continue. Thank you for your honesty guys.

Now to my second question: “Would you marry a lady who has a womb but lacks morals, good character, intelligence, and vision?” Did I hear you say No? Did I hear you argue that it is not the womb you are marrying, rather the person, and if the person lacks “wifey” qualities, then you can’t build life with her irrespective of her having a womb? This is fair too.

Alright! Gentlemen, do you know that the dilemma these two questions may have put you in right now is the same confusion women also go through? I will tell you how.

With women, money is the ‘womb’ of a man. If a man has no money (no womb), he is seen to be ‘incomplete’ or not yet refined. Thus, he can’t birth the ‘good of the land’ for his wife: He can’t birth good clothes, luxury, fun, and dream-support for his wife.

Just like how you answered the first question, a woman may try to stay with a good and well-mannered man who is poor, but there will come a time in her life where she will desire luxury. This desire may drive her to look elsewhere other than unto the (poor) man she is married to.

A man who desires to have his legacy continued and yet is married to a barren woman may be tempted to go outside and have children out of wedlock. In the same way, a woman married to poor man may be tempted to go outside her marriage to have “children” (luxury, fun life, the good of the land) out of wedlock.

Therefore, a woman needn’t be comfortable being barren, and a man shouldn’t be comfortable being broke/poor.

As a man, if you don’t have money yet, you should have something that can generate money when put to use. You should at least have a rod in your hand which God can turn into a snake for His use, and for your glory. Don’t wait around, and waste time, expecting a woman to come and take you “just as you are”. That will be a waste! And waste are dumped, not kept.

Have something. Don’t be broke-broke.

If you don’t have money, have a dream; and while you have a dream, have a plan; and with a plan, have some goals, and with the goals, TAKE A STEP. Don’t sit around expecting a woman to come and help you ‘walk’. She is not your crutch. Get up, and Walk! It is your dream; you had the dream; and you see it all, so WORK IT, and let the woman come and see the Garden of Eden, not just a dessert with seeds in your palm. Don’t let her ask, “What were you doing all these while lazy bones?” GET UP! AND WORK!

LISTEN UP GUYS, IF A WOMAN HAS A WOMB, MY GUY, YOU SHOULD HAVE MONEY. If you desire to sleep with a woman, then you should have money, whether you would use condom or not. The woman was built TO BE TAKEN CARE OF, PROTECTED, CULTIVATED, GUARDED, AND PROVIDED FOR. If you don’t have money, AS WELL AS a good character, then BOUNCE! The p*ssy isn’t for you, and she is not a whore… broke ass!

Who desires to eat, and yet has no money? If you are hungry, find money to buy some food. It is just sad that some ladies don’t know their worth, so they assume themselves so low… lower than a mere meal. YOU ARE GREAT MY LADY. YOU CARRY WORTH, AND WEALTH. Don’t reduce yourself for some broke ass, who is broke in character, intellect, and money, all because he has a d*ck, and can f*ck well. Hell no! Don’t put no roof over any guy’s head. IF HE IS A MAN, THEN LET HIM BE A MAN, AND NOT A BOY. If he needs shelter,  then let him go back to his father’s house, and build/save for his nest till he is ready to move out.

Stop exchanging your worth, destiny, and a whole lot of who you are for “good f*ck”. You would be f*cked up! If he has been able to ‘train’ himself to f*ck really good, then he can put that same energy into his purpose, and make his life f*cking good. The chick of it.

Let’s note also that, just as having a womb without good manners doesn’t guarantee that you would be a good mate, having money without good manners, character, intelligence, and wisdom doesn’t guarantee that you would be accepted by a noble woman to be her head.

If you only have money, handsomeness, and knows how to f*ck well, you may be only used and dumped. But in other to be KEPT, and ‘owned’, you would need to have good values, character, intelligence, wisdom, among many other good things, AND THEN MONEY.

Money is the NEEDFUL added package. It isn’t the whole thing. As a man, money shouldn’t define you or become your identity.

Having a womb, and money only completes a woman, and a man respectively.

A woman without a womb may be seen as something else other than a real woman (incomplete woman). Likewise, a man without money is seen either as lazy or incomplete.

Therefore, my gentlemen, DON’T EVER call a lady a gold digger. Birds like sweet-scented flowers, and women like money-scented men, with GOOD CHARACTER. It is just that, if money is the only thing you can present because you lack home skills, good communication skills, good character, and wisdom, then you would have yourself to blame.

As a man, if you ONLY present your money, then you would have women who would come around for ONLY your money. But if you would present something WORTHWHILE, something SUBSTANTIAL like INTEGRITY AND GOOD CHARACTER, then you would attract NOBLE WOMEN; women of substance, and beauty.

Finally, if you desire that your wife or woman should have a womb, vagina, THE REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM as a whole, then you, as a man MUST also have money, vision, and A FINANCIAL SYSTEM AS A WHOLE.

STAY BLESSED.