So a husband spends 8 active hours with a co-worker at his workplace, but spends 8 sleeping hours with his wife.

There is 24 hours in a day, and already 16 hours is gone. Let’s see what happens to the “shaking” 8 hours left: The husband spends at least an hour or 2 on his way home. When he gets home, he gets 30 minutes to ‘cool off’. And then he probably proceeds to help the kids with their homework, or he just have daddy time with the kids.

All this while, mommy is preparing dinner. After a while, dinner gets ready, wife goes to bathe, as well as the children and then daddy. They sit together and eat (30 minutes).

Kids clear the table, go to wash the dishes. Mommy sits with daddy in the couch (1 hour). Yawning starts, and they are off to bed (to close their eyes at each other).

What a sin against marriage? Yet, we wonder why there is so much cheating in the offices; Boss and secretary, Co-worker and your husband.

Oh my God! I can’t believe this.

What can we do? Let’s see if this alternative works: Hubby goes to work. He kisses wifey or they have a hot quickie before he leaves (to keep wifey on his mind all day long). When he is at work, during lunch break, wifey calls him or sends him a ‘wet’ SMS, or they have a video call. When he closes at 5pm, wifey sends hubby a cucumber emoji, ‘wet p*ssy’ emoji, or an SMS saying, “I can’t wait to see you my king.”[Be dynamic]. Hubby gets home, wife receives him with a hot or soft and lovely welcome kiss. She gives him some few minutes to cool off. After hubby has rejuvenated, he then helps the children with their homework, and then they all go to help mommy in the kitchen finish the meals, and then set the table.

After the family have eaten, have spent some time with one another, mommy and daddy could tell the children to go to their rooms, and have their own “Me time”, while mommy and daddy also have their “Meeee time”. You get what I mean right? [wink].

Preferably, they should be skin-to-skin. Their bodies, or a part of their bodies should be touching each other’s. Make it quality mommy; make it memorable daddy. Afterwards, they could shower together, watch a little television, pray TOGETHER, and then go to bed.

While in bed, their bodies (skins) should touch each other. I am so particular about this skin-to-skin thing. If you wouldn’t sleep without your legs, or if it wouldn’t be wise to sleep with your head is somewhere , and your body in another place, then as awkward, or troublesome it may sound or be, please make sure that your “one flesh”[husband and wife (Genesis 2:24)] UNITE IN BED. You could let your arms be around each other, butt in bosom position, or anything comfortable. But in all your sleeping postures, makes sure that your skins touch each other.

It is obvious that the sin of time against marriage has already been planted. Some men even go beyond the popular 8 hours at work. So mommy, the victory is in your hands to plant. Plant it in the soil of your marriage. Don’t be too busy planting malice, resentment, and bitterness in your marriage. They will break it. The world is already against your marriage. So what you have to do is to make your time with daddy SO MEANINGFUL, FULFILLING, AND SATISFYING. Let it even feel like “the fewer (little time) the merrier (Quality).”

Don’t complain about the little time mommy. Just make the little time memorable, and daddy will be motivated to find ways to bring you more time together. Make your activities so rich, that when you pour it into the little cup of time given you, daddy will ask for more.

Marriage is a two way street. Daddy, as much as mommy is putting in her best to make the marriage work, and live, please don’t be passive. Be responsive. Be the head. Rule, rule and lead your kingdom (marriage) to bliss. WE TRUST YOU!

I wish you all the best. You are a beautiful and virtuous woman, mommy. A handsome and faithful man, daddy. You are a rare kind both of you. Go, and let your lights shine before men that they may see your GOOD WORKS (great marriage) and GLORIFY your Father in heaven.

Wife, please Submit to your OWN husbands.

            Husbands, Love your wives please.

Mommy, you are not in any competition with anybody. Just give daddy your best. That is all that matters. Don’t break your back, or turn backwards for anything. Just be your best self. We need you alive, healthy, and strong mommy.

GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU.