When men marry women, they wish the women never change. If there be any change, it should be an improvement, but not a total change.

But look at our women: they marry men when they are in a state which they, the men don’t even like. And then these women hope that God will cause things to CHANGE for the better for their men.

U see what your low self-esteem has gotten you into?

As a lady, you ought to sometimes think like a man, while you act as a lady.

If you were in the man’s situation when he met you, I BET HE WOULDN’T MARRY YOU, and “hope” that things will get better. No! He wouldn’t do that. He is too selfish, and self-seeking to do that.

This is what you ought to do as a lady:
Marry a man whose personality, living situation and life is good enough for you such that EVEN IF he doesn’t change, or things don’t change “for the better”, you will still be fine.

If u marry a man in his LOWEST STATE, he will think of you as a low thing. Should he eventually rise to his HIGHEST PEAK, he wouldn’t like to associate with you.
Because, sub-consciously he associates you with lack and low level.

This is when you will hear cases of men leaving their wives (who “built” with them) for younger and more sassy girls.

It is a thing. And besides, the Bible says that the heart of man is DESPERATELY WICKED. Don’t think your “love for the man” will change the scriptures.

Let the man rather love you, the lady in your “lowest” while you respect him, and then you two build together; GROW together.

Do NOT think that you are doing a man any favour when you love, and stay with Him in his “lowest”.

In his lowest, a man doesn’t even like himself. He is aspiring to move higher. Leave him to seek God, and get a better job or business idea to improve ON HIS OWN. And should he choose you as HIS life mate after he has succeeded, then FINE.

But don’t wait around for him though.
You are a great lady. Improve yourself and move on. If he sees you and wants you, then FINE.

Don’t try to chain him down with “your love”. He will break free when he gets money, or find someone else who can help him to the top.

STAY WISE!