The Bibles calls the Church, the Bride of Christ. Meaning, Jesus Christ, OUR SAVIOUR is the groom.

The Bible records that Jesus came to die for the Church. Jesus Christ is the HEAD of the Church: He saw the imperfection of the Church and provided a solution for it by gong to the cross in the place of the Church.

After salvation, the Church is now married to Jesus Christ, her saviour.

With Jesus Christ as the head, authority comes from him to His body, the Church. Thus, the Church, the Bride of Christ SUBMIT to Jesus Christ our LORD.

Now, let me ask this, is it the Church who teaches Jesus Christ how to be Holy, or is it the Church who is looking up to Jesus, the author and finisher of her Faith to be Holy as He, God is Holy?

What is the relevance of this marital union between God and the Church through Christ Jesus?

Why does Jesus Christ needs the Church?

Why did he marry and lay down His life for the Church, his Bride?

According to Ephesians 5, the marriage between Jesus Christ and the church is what a man and a woman should emulate as Marriage: The Husband is supposed to LOVE his wife LIKE Christ loves the Church, while the wife is supposed to SUBMIT to her husband AS UNTO the Lord.

So clearly, the marital union between Jesus Christ and the Church is what a man and a woman ought to emulate in their marriage.

If this is the case, if my husband is going to be my head, if authority would be flowing from him to me, if I am supposed to submit to my husband AS UNTO THE LORD, then my husband ought to BE PERFECT AS CHRIST IS PERFECT: My husband is supposed to be THE EXAMPLE I should look up to.

It shouldn’t be the other way round. I, the woman shouldn’t be the one trying to “CHANGE” or TRANSFORM my husband. No!

According to Ephesians 5, my husband is supposed to SUBMIT TO CHRIST. Thus, Christ is his head.

So if Christ is his head, how far has he being submitting unto Christ? Why does it seem that me, the woman knows more than him? This is a huge error!

If a MAN is able to have you while he is low in his Christian Faith, what makes you think he will go higher in his Faith to keep you? What will be his motivation then? After all, you have made it clear that you hate divorce just like God hates divorce [Malachi 2:16], so you are going nowhere.

Do you see the error now?

Just like financial independence; if a man is low in his finances, LEAVE HIM ALONE to go and work HARDER to become financially independent and self-reliant BEFORE he can come have you. Stop saying, “God will provide.” Allow God to provide for him while he is STILL single.

Stop imposing your horny, lack of self-control body, and impudent mind on God, trying to bend his arms to your clock.

LEAVE THE MAN ALONE. Allow him to be WHOLLY single first.

Think LIKE the Eagle: If the man can’t catch you spiritually, if your spiritual weight is heavier than his, DON’T MARRY HIM! Don’t Settle. Even the Eagle knows better.

A man is supposed to be able to catch you and your children SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, and FINANCIALLY. If he can’t, don’t mate with him!

Be Patient.

      Be Still and Know that God is LORD.

You rushed and got married, NOW What?

Think LIKE the Eagle.

[Isaiah 40:31] _ “But those who wait for the Lord [who expect, look for, and hope for Him] shall change and renew their strength and power; they shall life their wings and mount up [close to God] as eagles [mount up to the sun]; they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint or become tired.”

My Standard is High for a reason: If I am maximizing my SINGLEHOOD, and keeping myself pure, then I wouldn’t settle for a “second-hand” goods.  I am sorry.

I am worth a King

     I am the “delicacy” of a King.

          I am worthy to be a Queen, and NOT a “tolerated servant”.

             I AM THE PREFERENCE OF A KING

I set the BAR high to keep men on their toes.

Ladies, do you now realize how much you run the world, and hold the keys to the progress of this whole world? QUIT settling! DON’T drop the bar too low! CHALLENGE these men to MAN UP! INSIST that they LEVEL UP before they can have you!

Ladies, don’t drop the bar, and now begin to cry and nag your men to LEVEL UP. After you have LEVELLED LOW, and settled with them, and even had kids with them. Oh Come On!

Let me ask you this my lady, as noble as you are, if you are given a winning trophy before you even competed in a race, which zeal in the world would you have to COMPETE in that race for a trophy which you have already been given without effort? Tell me.

Open your eyes my ladies!

BE LIKE THE EAGLE

KNOW YOUR GOD

HAVE FAITH IN HIM

AND MOUNT UP WITH WINGS LIKE THE EAGLE

FLY HIGH DARLING… FLY HIGH!

CHALLENGE TOUGHLY

DON’T SETTLE FOR LESS OR ANY CHICKEN DEAR EAGLE LADY.

Challenge LIKE the Eagle, Rule Like a Lioness.

#WearyourCrown.

#Queen!