Mother is Narcissistic
Son becomes Narcissistic
Granddaughter becomes Narcissistic

Should granddaughter realise this pattern of narcissism and decide to break out of it, guess what will happen?
All hell will break lose!

Why?
It’s because the principality called “Narcissism” wants the venom of narcissism to run through the generation till it becomes an acceptable norm or even culture.

But once a person in that generation line sees the light, and decides to bring the Light of sanity into this dark generation, hell (more darkness) breaks lose.

Such a child becomes the family’s scapegoat.

Do you know what you should do if this happens? Ask Moses; ask Jephthah.

If you, as the game changer of the family becomes the narcissistic family’s scapegoat, SEPARATE from the family.

Yeah, separate to unite. Don’t “Unite” to separate. What do I mean by this? Like Moses, when relatives or friends begin to “accuse” you of whatever, or if the devil in them begin to ask you ‘who made you leader over us?’, LEAVE EGYPT!

Go to a foreign land. A place where nobody knows you. Begin a new life there. It’s better to start all over again on a right path, than to go far in the WRONG PATH.

SEPARATE!
Like Abram, Separate!
Like Moses, Leave!
Like Jephthah, Leave!

Endure the abandonment, or even loneliness now. Feel abandoned or rejected now. Besides, it is written, “The STONE (you) the builders (family) REJECTED has become the CHIEF CORNERSTONE (ruler of all).”

Don’t worry about time.
Moses had to do an extra 40 years to clear the mess of Egypt.
Abraham did life (forever) in separation from his family, but till now, his name is the one mentioned in history, not his father’s.
Jephthah, after separation from his brothers was called back by them. But this time, he became their RULER. The same persons who rejected him now served him.

Break the Cycle girl!
Destroy the Pattern man!
Come out from among them!
They are unknowingly handicapped, they are bound by the enemy of narcissism. Break free from among them.

Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Don’t make excuses for anybody.
Love DOESN’T HURT!
God is Love, and He doesn’t hurt. He rather loves, and His Love builds or repairs you.
Anyone who claim to have love in them, but their actions towards you hurts, steals, destroy or kills you IS OF THE DEVIL!

Love doesn’t hurt.
Rather, it’s the acts of being Used and Abused (AB-normally USED) which hurts. TAKE NOTE!
Are you being loved or being used? KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.

Stay Blessed.
I LOVE YOU.
JESUS LOVES YOU TOO.