When you meet someone for the first time, how do you relate to them? Do you relate to them per how/who they are, or how you are? Ask yourself this.

If I am a con man, and you don’t take time to know me for who I am, but rather relate nicely to me because you are a nice person, who is to be blamed when I act evil to you?

Do you blame a snake for biting you? No, you shouldn’t. It is the nature of a snake to bite, and it is prudent for you to know that a snake bites. But if you relate nicely to a snake because ‘you are a nice person’ or think that your niceness can change a snake from biting, then think again.

The problem we face often can be traced back to our own negligence. The Holy Bible admonishes us to be sober and vigilant.

Don’t blame a con man for scamming you.

            Don’t blame a narcissist for love-bombing you.

                        Don’t blame a psychopath for grooming you. These are their nature, their traits. Like Dogs bark, snakes hiss, fish swim, etc. Those traits are their nature. So it will be wise of you to pull back and notice the nature of a person so that you will know how to treat them.

Once or twice, you can lend them your ‘niceness treat’, but that shouldn’t be the norm. that shouldn’t be the menu. Serve them with their appetite and delicacies.

Don’t ever complain, “How could he be this wicked? I didn’t know this side of him.” You didn’t do your due diligence.

If you were working in a bank, and a client comes to make a withdrawal, would you withdraw the amount from the bank’s coffers or from the client bank account? I bet you are getting what I mean.

Most of you think that as a bank (nice people), we should just withdraw any amount of money someone asks for from the bank’s account. No! That is a poor business move. Always withdraw from the person’s bank account. You can sometimes loan them money here and there, but they need to prove their loyalty and integrity. If they don’t, why do you still give them more access, and then come and complain that they’ve done you evil? You acted as a poor bank manager.

Manage your bank (assets, pearls, sacred things, your space, your time and energy etc) properly. Withdraw money only from clients’ accounts. If they don’t have enough funds, let them know, and deny access. You aren’t Santa Claus. Even Santa Claus has a clause, “if you were a good kid all year long”.

You are cheap

            You are too easy

                        You are naïve

                                    Or let me say you are stupid, or do you call it ignorance?

Treat people per who they are. And when people show you who they are, PLEASEEEEEEE believe them. You didn’t mother them, neither did you father them. So, if they show you who they are, even like a screenshot, believe them. It was the screen (who they are) that was shot; screenshot.

Henceforth, I am not going to be mean, but I am surely going to be strict. You can’t access my energy until you have shown me that we are on the same wavelength. How can two walk together unless they agree? Birds of a feather flock together.

Are you of the same feather as the person? Has the person even shown you which feather they carry? Or worse, has the person even shown you that he is a ‘bird’? Don’t blame the evil person. BLAME YOURSELF FOR BEING IGNORANT. For the lack of knowledge, my people PERISH.

The next time you meet a stranger, don’t ask them who they are. Intelligently find out who they are; wisely observe who they are, listen to what they are, and smell how they are. So that you will know if you are dealing with a snake, a dog, a bird, or a human. Because WE ARE ALL NOT HUMANS.

Thank you.