I now understand why guys dread rejection from ladies: Imagine yourself, a handsome guy, well to do, got things going on well for you, and you approach a lady only for her to say No to you.

This “No” doesn’t feel like a response to your proposal, but if feels like a negation to everything you have worked for. It feels like a minus to all your achievements. This blow is hard. It can even make you doubt your worth. This is hard.

Men would love women to be a plus to their achievements. But if she says No, it’s hard. It’s really hard. You kind of feel, “Why did I even achieve all these? Were they worth it if it can’t attract a lady to me?”

This may seem like a no brainer or nothing for a guy to worry about, but NO. It hurts. A non-Christian would be hit in the worse way because he has NO hope, and he is on his own. But a true Christian, who is also emotionally stable and healthy would say, “Let your will be done LORD.”

Rejection is hard. And for it to come from a lady to a man is worse. This is why, as a guy, your achievements shouldn’t be your only assets. HEAL! Heal emotionally because there are people walking carelessly around.

If you are emotionally wounded, even though rich, you will bleed everywhere.

HEAL! My dear HEAL! Your achievements shouldn’t define your worth. YOU are NOT your achievements. 

You should have a HEALTHY SELF-IDENTITY of your own which is NOT influenced by outside stimuli. Thus, in bad or good, you are still YOU, and your identity is still intact. In that way, you would not be broken easily by any form of rejection.

After all, the beautiful ones are not yet born!

PEACE!