Baby, should you take care of your body, should you do much exercises to get fit and also to be in good shape, it will boost your confidence.
Also, it makes you remain/look more attractive.
Why would your husband look elsewhere for thin ladies or curvy ladies?
“A dog is always a dog.” You may complain/say.
Yes baby, you are right. But should you do right to the “dog”, should you feed it well, and should you do everything it likes, IT WILL FIND YOUR HOUSE A HOME.
And no matter how much he goes out to “roam”, he will always come home to you and even come earlier.
“I can’t do everything for him. That will be slavery. I can’t do everything he says.” You may complain again.
Well, you may be right with the “slavery thing”, but should you do that which I am telling you; submitting to him (slavery with love), YOU WOULD HAVE DONE A LITTLE MORE THAN YOU USUALLY DO.
Men are Visual creatures, while we females are more of Emotional beings. Meaning, men are attracted to what they see.
Men see the body, before their minds sometimes process the character or whatsoever about the lady.

So should you exercise vigorously; make time to exercise, and take care of yourself and your body, not only is your confidence boosted, you will also have your man “glued” to your side the way you want it darling.
Being selfless, He will give you all the emotional love and needs you desire.
Some men don’t care/bother really about their women’s body/curves. But I don’t think that, should you look sexy in body and dressing, he wouldn’t like it.
You are slim, fine, keep that slim body sexy and healthy.
“I am already chubby. It runs in my family. What do I do?” you may ask.
Baby, I got you. You can rock sexiness in that body.
Is your confidence low because you look chubby? Then exercise : go joking, skip some rope. These activities will make you “feel” healthy: Not necessarily shedding some fat/folds off, but just boosting your confidence to rock sexiness, and eventually, you will get both; confidence and a sexy body…xoxoxo…
“I am already sexy and I like my body.” You say.
Well, that is good. And from the way you’ve spoken I can feel that you have both; confidence and sexiness.

Baby, keep it up and don’t get lazy.
Imagine being married to your boo who used to be gorgeous when you two were dating. But when you two got married, because of the “pressures” of marriage, home keeping, love, kids, jobs, etc he has started drinking and doesn’t take care of himself anymore: He has started growing too big with pot belly. How would you feel girl?
Assuming he has started growing too chubby such that his ‘6’ packs and charming body are all leaving him; giving him a big pot belly with too chubby legs, would you like it? Even if you can “cope” with that, you would have wished it was better with the packed body and sexiness you saw while you two were dating.
If you wouldn’t like this or wouldn’t wish for this (about your husband’s body), how much more your VISUAL BEING, HUSBAND?
Please baby, don’t be too selfish and say, “I don’t care.”
According to the Holy Bible, your body is your husband’s, while his is yours. [1 Corinthians 7:4].
So please, take care of “his” body / property, while he takes care of yours too.
Don’t act wiser than the Bible. Should you do that, you will be ACTING STUPIDLY AND FOOLISHLY/IGNORANTLY.
Stay Blessed.
//should your partner see your effort to please him, I am sure he will feel grateful.
//Even if he doesn’t, do it for yourself and for your own good. After all, it is your own body too baby…xoxoxo…
Stay Blessed…God Loves you, so do I.
Scriptural Reference: 1 Corinthians 7:4.