He likes respect, so as a single lady, you are learning how to be respectful; he likes good food, so you are learning how to cook; he likes sex, what are you learning or doing about this?
[SILENCE]
I don’t know how this was done, but ladies have been brainwashed so much so that, when they talk about sex, they feel like prostitutes/ are spoiled.
You are not a prostitute/spoiled if you should talk about sex my lady. You are actually wise, because you know what your man needs.

Men don’t want sex; they need sex. And their persistent ask for it is no crime.
It is rather how and what they demand that may be wrong. But if it is sex, it is normal.

“What do you want me to do?”

Unlike the food and respect which you are learning through practice, sex as a single lady is not to be learned through practice.

As a matter of fact, you cannot learn the skills or acts of sex in one day or from one bad relationship: it is a lifetime practice, to make perfect.

“And how is it done Augustina?”

You do it by learning and cultivating confidence in you. Be confident about sex. Be open minded about sex.

We don’t need you to be a pro at sex per se: We only need you to be confident.

This confidence I am talking about could include you breaking the stereotype that girls shouldn’t talk about sex.

Some ladies are so shy about sex so much that they are not able to learn, even when their spouses wants to teach them. During sex, they are so ‘hard and stiff’.  Come on girl that is not romantic.
Be sexual girl. That is the thing.
Initiate sex too as a married wife.

Should you put the demand and initiation of sex on only the man, or if sexual encounters with you are rare, you push your man and his money into the arms of a ‘cursed’ prostitute.
Yes.
He is not a dog; he is your man, but with this cold attitude of yours, you will be making a dog out of your man.
If you see your man as a ‘dog’, he would be that for you, but if you see your man as a man, husband, King, you would treat him as such and he would be that for you as well. Isn’t this nice?

What is wrong with exposing some flesh; thighs, boobs, cleavage to your Man when you are at home?
The home is not a church for you to wear long robes.
‘Copy’ the prostitutes and their attitudes in the right light: they invest in their bodies and outfits, they don’t allow themselves to grow over weight or out of ‘shape’ with any excuse.

If you were single and searching, would you have allowed your tummy to grow too big, body becomes shapeless, dress anyhow?
Absolutely not.
Then why are you doing it now that you are married? This isn’t fair girl.
Do you lack integrity this much, or has your man changed from being a man to something else since you wore the ring?
Have some integrity my lady.
Be Sexual.
Get yourself some lingerie.
Let him know that you are investing in yourself FOR HIM. This mustn’t be extravagant. It has to be done WISELY: It all boils down to being CONFIDENT.

Knowing how to give sex without CONFIDENCE is like a good meal with bad garnishing; not all of us would eat it [go beyond the garnishing].
So learn confidence. Be confident. Don’t get yourself involved in sexual acts. It will only traumatize you and keep you comparing your man to an unknown person.

Confidence is beautiful in itself.

Be creatively spontaneous too: Don’t be in control always; give him the opportunity to ‘hunt’.

While he is watching TV, how about wearing that sexy lingerie that exposes your boobs and shows your butt, and walk pass him to the other part of the room? You don’t have to sit by him_ let him come get it [you see what I mean?]. Don’t feed him like a child; let the big man in him come get the food he needs… 

Walk over, and bend to take that glass or drink from the fridge…lol

He is sleeping; how about you getting naked, smelling good and slide into the bed? Start to rub the lil boy between his legs to sleep too … lol

He is eating some ice cream. How about offering some boobs too so he sucks. Let’s see if he would drop the ice cream: Just a bet…lol. That’s all.

Be confident girl.
Confidence makes you Creative.

You can learn 365 ways to have sex (one for each day) or sex positions and still be boring.
But with confidence and attitude, you can do Missionary for a week even, and it would feel like Heaven each time.

Men are so confident that even if they don’t know how to do anything, they would at least try a way.
How about you?
What are you doing?
Are you leaving everything for the man to do? Well, he is not f**king himself. If he was, you could have left everything for him. But if he is f**king you, contribute; Moan at least.

Note:
1. Don’t compare your body shape to any other girl’s.
2. If you should feed your man to the fullest, no other food (lady) would attract him.
3. ‘All men are dogs.’ Yes, that is true if your man is not from the Kingdom (of God) but from the world (you chose him just because he looks fine).
4. Don’t search and choose your man my lady. Approve them when they come by. The searching and finding has to be done by them, not you. [He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor and approval from the LORD, Proverbs 18:22 AMP]. You are the GOOD THING GIRL.

F**k your Man….. Haaaarrrr..ddd
Because He likes Sex.
Stay Blessed

Caution:
If you are single, not married, please stay away from erotic materials. It is helpful and needful to have your mind and energy set on other beneficial things than sex materials.

Having confidence doesn’t mean expose yourself to erotic materials be it movies or magazines. Keep your mind pure till marriage. Pursue your purpose (in God’s presence), and you would be able to have all the confidence and courage you would need for sex in marriage.

If you are married too, please be confident. Show us something. Show your man something.
Be good at sex….
Stay Blessed.

Byeee…

I Love You…xoxoxo…