But for Adam no suitable helper was found… Then the LORD God made a woman… he brought her to the man…The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife and they become ONE FLESH. Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. [Genesis 2:20-25NIV]

… but he didn’t find a suitable companion… God then used the rib that he had taken from the Man to make Woman and presented her to the Man. The man said, “Finally! Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh! Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and embraces his wife. They become ONE FLESH. The two of them, the Man and his Wife, were naked, but they felt no shame. [Genesis 2:20-25 MSG]

…but for Adam there was not found a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him… And the rib or part of his side which the Lord God had taken from the man He built up and made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. Then Adam said, This [creature] is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall become united and cleave to his wife, and they shall become ONE FLESH. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not embarrassed or ashamed in each other’s presence. [Genesis 2:20-25 AMPC]

It amazes me how men mistreat women.

It amazes me how in spite of all that God created and put man in charge of, he still saw that man was alone, incomplete and needed a woman.

            It amazes me that the animals, trees, provisions, and the beauty of the garden couldn’t fulfill a man but a woman did.

It is said that the man and the woman were naked, and felt no shame.

Did you notice that the Bible also said that for this reason (finding a priceless jewel, woman) the man will leave his father and mother and cleave to the woman, and the two will now become ONE FLESH? It is like getting an admission into school: for this reason (the admission, and how important it is) you have to leave your father and mother, and cleave (be admitted) into the school. But what do we see? Men see women as trash, especially when those men have money. Yet, we were told in the Bible that Adam had everything including God himself yet, HE WAS ALONE. And what did God do? He didn’t give Adam more money, more animals nor trees. HE BUILT UP A WOMAN!

For a long time the wheels of society had been driven by money, and fortunately or unfortunately those monies were for a long time in the hands of men. So in other to have a portion of it, you had to ‘slave’ yourself as a woman to get any. This went on for years. It is either you became a prostitute, a mistress, or a tolerating wife. Meanwhile, that was not so in the beginning.

Life is not run by money. If it was, Adam had it all, and even King Solomon did. But he said, “He that finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the Lord.” He didn’t say he that finds more money finds a good thing, even though money answers all things. King Solomon was the wisest man on earth, so you can’t tell me nothing.

A woman is a priceless jewel for a man such that when a man finds her, he leaves his mom and dad to cleave to her (for breath, and life). A man NEEDS a woman. Ironically, a woman doesn’t NEED a man. She COMPLETES men. That is her place. Women can live without men. Truth! But their purposes is fulfilled when their complete men. Because without women, men will be ‘wayward’ and helpless.

“So if this is the situation or truth, why is it that it looks like Women need men instead?” Someone may ask. I will tell you. It is because of money: The skewness of money. For a long time, money was in the hands of men. Until World War II that women started having independence. And because of this, women have been fighting to have their place. Why? They are THE NEEDED ONES, and they know that. And now, we see Feminism everywhere. But it was not so in the beginning. Satan did corrupt the world and the minds of men. In actual fact, men need women to complete them. No matter the level of their successes, if they don’t have a woman of their own, they feel like failures. And it is true.

Even God couldn’t complete Adam alone. No matter how full of God Adam was, it was spiritual. He needed something to fill him up emotionally and physically since he is a trio (spirit, soul and body). And that could only be done by the BUILT UP WOMAN, the good woman.

“Then why do we see all these cheat and evil in the world?” It is because of the lack of knowledge. Hence, everybody is perishing: the woman is fighting not to be belittled, the man is striving to be seen as important. Meanwhile, if we should go back to the beginning, and every man was in God, with the wisdom of God in him, he would know that the woman is not a competition, but a completion.  

Men have value their cars, and monies yet those things don’t fulfill or complete them. I just hope you will catch the revelation especially men. Women are so important that when you find them, you have to leave your mom and dad to be united to her. Thus, a woman in your life is more important than even your parents. PERIOD!

God couldn’t do it; your mama can’t do it; your dada can’t also do it. IT IS ONLY THE WOMAN who can. Try having babies with your mother. How is that? Trying building purpose with your dada. How did that go? Try crying in the bosom of God. How did that feel? ONLY THE WOMAN CAN! It is her place (completion) to do it!

Value a woman. She is NOT a material property. If you treat a woman as a property, she will become a loan to you, which you will pay with interest when she is leaving. Treat her as a queen. That is the least you could give her. Without her, you are incomplete. The hash word to use would have been, without YOUR WOMAN, man you are USELESS!

The world started ‘expanding’ with people in it WHEN THE WOMAN ARRIVED.

If you treat a woman anyhow, you are stupid (stupid= “lacking in intelligence”).

            If you treat a woman anyhow, you are a fool (Galatians 3:1)

                        If you treat a woman anyhow, you will pay.

If you need wisdom to be able to nurture, cultivate, or dwell with a woman in understanding, don’t go looking in the magazines, neither should you ask for help from your friends. They are males too. Instead, go to God who created her. Besides, when he was creating her, you were asleep man. You were put in a deep sleep. So you know nothing about the makeup of a woman. So stop acting as if you know women. YOU DON’T! You were asleep, sleep head! Go to God to open your eyes to wisdom so that you can treat that woman like a queen, like the built up creature God made: Like the sign of completion in your life.

If your woman was breath (oxygen) to you, would you treat her anyhow? No! Because you know it will cost your life. Well, like Jesus said, I am here to tell you that something more than oxygen is in your hands. She is called Woman, she is called your life. And if you don’t treat her well, it will cost you your LIFE, DESTINY, and even your entry into HEAVEN. Don’t play with that creature called WOMAN.

And oh, before I forget, dominion over this world/earth was given to you both; the man and the woman, male and female, not the man and his mama or papa. Dominion over your purpose, over your destiny, over the earth was given to them (male and female). So the woman is a fellow in command, not a slave or servant, or whatever. She is nothing less to you. She is same as you in her own uniqueness. YOU BOTH ARE FROM THE SAME SPIRIT, The Spirit of God. So how dare you treat a bearer of God’s Spirit like she was an animal?

Don’t let money control you man. Because the Bible says, you can’t serve God and money. If money is controlling you, you will treat your wife anyhow. But if it is God who is controlling you, you will love your wife, as Christ loves the Church. So take it this way; if you are treating your wife anyhow without love, know that money is controlling you (your god is money; you are  carnally minded, and that is death). But if you are treating your wife with love as best as you can, then you are being controlled by the Spirit of God (spirit minded. And that leads to life and peace).

May the Lord be with you, and keep you.

You are loved, dear man.

You are precious fellow woman.

“So God created mankind in his own image. In the image of God he created THEM; male and female he created THEM.”_ Genesis 1:27NIV.

AMEN